Clearing Acne and Tensions: A Mom's Guide to Supporting Their Teen With Acne
Clearing Acne and Tensions: A Mom's Guide to Supporting Their Teen With Acne

Acne, a common skin condition faced by teenagers worldwide, often becomes a source of tension between teens and their parents. The urge to help your child through this challenging time is natural, yet it often leads to what feels like an endless cycle of nagging from your end and growing frustration on theirs. 

Many parents find themselves asking, "How can I support my teen without causing further stress or alienating them?"

Understanding the emotional impact that acne can have on a teenager is crucial. It's not just about physical appearance; it affects self-esteem, social interactions and can increase the distance between you and them. However, with a compassionate approach, it’s possible to bridge this gap, alleviate the tension and tackle acne as a united front.  You may find some easy solutions to acne in the course "Clear Skin Secrets" that you can start implementing today.

Understanding the Teenage Perspective
First, it’s essential to see the world through your teenager's eyes. Acne isn't just a few spots, it can feel like a billboard advertising their insecurities. When parents approach the subject from a place of wanting to 'fix' the problem, it can sometimes be interpreted as criticism, leading the teen to be defensive or to withdraw from being around the family.
Empathizing with your teen's feelings about acne without immediate judgment or solutions can open up a dialogue. Ensure they know you see them beyond their acne and that your love and acceptance are unconditional.

Nutrition: The Family Affair
One of the most powerful tools in combating acne comes from within, nutrition. This is where the family can come together, making positive changes that benefit everyone. Incorporating a diet rich in fruits, vegetables, whole grains and lean proteins can improve skin health. Hydration is also key, so encourage drinking plenty of water.
These changes don't have to be drastic overnight; small, gradual adjustments are less likely to be met with resistance. Involving your teen in meal planning and preparation can also empower them to make healthier choices independently.

Stress Less
The link between stress and acne is well-documented. Teen years are full of changes and challenges, from academic pressures to social dynamics. Encouraging open conversations about what’s going on in their life can help them feel supported and understood.
Introduce stress-reduction techniques that the whole family can benefit from. Whether it’s yoga, meditation or just spending quality time together without screens, find what works for your family. These moments not only help in reducing stress but also strengthen family bonds.

Establishing a Skincare Routine
A good skincare routine is vital in managing acne, but it can be overwhelming to figure out where to start. This is an opportunity to educate your teen on skin health without overstepping boundaries. Offering to schedule a consultation with an esthetician or researching products together can be a way to show support without being intrusive.

Remember, the goal is to guide them towards healthy habits rather than dictating every step they take. Celebrate small victories and be patient with the process.

Communicating Without Nagging
Change the narrative from nagging to nurturing by how you communicate. Instead of reminding them to wash their face, frame conversations around health and self-care as forms of self-respect. Listen more than you speak and when you do offer advice, make sure it’s solicited.

Coming Together as a Family
Ultimately dealing with acne, like many aspects of parenting a teenager, requires a balance of support, independence and patience. It's about more than just clear skin; it's about showing your teen they're not alone in their struggles. By addressing acne as a team, you're teaching your child valuable lessons in self-care, resilience and family unity.
Every teenager’s experience with acne is unique and so is every family's dynamic. What remains constant is the need for understanding, support and communication. By focusing on these areas, you can help ease the tension brought on by acne and strengthen your relationship with your teen. After all, this journey, though paved with challenges, is also filled with opportunities for growth, learning and coming together.

Have a fabulous day!

Jean Kelly
Licensed Esthetician
Acne Specialist

PS. If you'd like a special invitation to join a free Facebook group called "Parents of Teens with Acne" grab that HERE!


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Meet Jean Kelly -Acne Esthetician

 
I'm Jean Kelly. 
I received my esthetician license in 2012.  I've been working on skin since then learning all I can about rosacea and acne. I took a course to be an acne specialist so I could learn even more and have access to exclusive products.  My kids struggled with acne for years.  My daughter would cry, her face covered in pimples, and beg me "please don't make me go to school".  It was heartbreaking to see her in pain.  We went to doctors and they never tried to find the causes, they only wanted to prescribe medication. .. some with really bad side effects.  One summer she went swimming and came out so sunburn with second degree burns from one of the prescription medications. 
My son's skin wasn't much better.  His was mostly on his neck, chest and back.  We went through the same routing with doctors just prescribing meds.  Nothing helped.
I finally decided I needed to research what causes acne.  I went to school to be an esthetician thinking I could get some answers.  It seemed like everyone was perplexed!  Once I got my license I was able to buy products that only licensed esthetician can buy.  I found a product line that worked great!  My daughter said her face looks it's best when she's using it and I must say she is beautiful!  
I decided my purpose in life was to help others that are struggling with acne, to clear their skin and change their lifestyle to include healthier foods and supplements.
I learned that what is going on inside your body shows up on the outside!  Gut and liver health are an important part of clearing acne along with a good skin care routine.  
             Are you ready to get started clearing your skin?
                                       Jean



If you have a child going through a hard time, I hope that you'll join my free group for parents.  

In my exclusive community we will give you inspiration and and lots of ways to live a more healthy lifestyle. Our focus is not only on helping to clear your teens skin, but also working on their self-esteem, digestion as well as finding the right supplements and foods. 

Just know that you’re not alone and you'll be surrounded by supportive and like minded people!




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